It is so easy to want the life that someone else has. When we see how others live, it makes us feel lacking in some key way only most of us don’t know what it is or how to change it. We want to be able to change what we don’t want or like and transform ourselves into what we believe is better. You can use what I say in this blog to see how I live my life, but you truly have to experience it for yourself, not as something that is distant, over there.
Only when you experience how I live a joyous and fulfilled life can you see that it was even possible, by taking action to give your life more meaning and substance. The first step is to pay attention, then give your full attention to everything in your life. See the habits and thoughts you have in certain situations. Then rate those thoughts as limiting or expanding thoughts and actions. Look at everything like you are looking at it for the very first time as an outside observer. With your attention create an intention as to what you want to do with those thoughts and actions. When you start discarding and dissolving what has built impenetrable walls around you, you will notice your world beginning to shift.
The Universe loves action. Observing is the first step, but the Irish have a wonderful saying, *You will never plough a field by doing it in your mind.* You must start to do something to change your circumstances and the first step is to believe you can.
For example, if you want to win a large lottery, you must first learn to manage money and find the people who can help you do it. They you must believe you can win with all your heart and soul every moment. There are so many *junk* thoughts and misconceptions around money that you must also push out of your mind through your intent. It is a process that may take you years, but with your faith and persistence, in addition to your diligent efforts to better yourself in every way, you are increasing the probabilities. Finally you have to keep buying the tickets while continually believing you can do it. There is nothing to stopping you except what is going on in your mind.
Some things I have been able to manifest almost instantly, others have taken months and years and some things have taken decades. When I forgot or slacked off in my focus, it only extended the time it has taken me to achieve my goals. I have been solely responsible for my efforts or lack thereof. Now, I have developed skills that far exceed what I originally decided. But, I have been in the trenches, developed techniques based on my experiences and my suffering. Unless you were born with some of these skills and managed to remember them as you got older, you too will have to create your own reality and experiences just like everyone else. The Law of Attraction is very clear about that. If you can maintain your focus and your efforts, you will probably be able to reduce the time it will take you to get there, especially if you can believe.